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The Hassoldt clan: Quite a handful

July 3rd, 2009, 5:03 pm by Mark Barna

How do Steve and Shonni Hassoldt do it? This Colorado Springs couple, compelled by both their love of children and their Christian faith, have adopted seven children from various parts of the world. That’s on top of their three biological children, one of whom is now old enough to live on his own.

I wrote about the family for a story about how Christian couples, churches and ministries are promoting adoption as a manifestation of their faith. (The story will run in The Gazette print edition on July 4 and is online now at gazette.com.)

Barna with 2-year-old Aiden

Barna with 2-year-old Aiden

I enjoyed my visit to the Hassoldts home, though after a while the children began to wear me out a little with their exuberance. I don’t know how Steve and Shonni handle it all so serenely.

The Hassoldts live on five acres in Black Forest. While Steve works during the day as a team claims manager at State Farm Insurance, Shonni home-schools 9-year-old Kiana, born in China, 8-year-old Landon, born in South Korea, 7-year-old Garett, born in Vietnam, and the oldest daughters, Kalyn, 15, and Caresse, 11, both born in Colorado Springs. 

Meanwhile,  4-year-old Corbin, born in Tulsa, Okla., and the Liberia-born Alia, 4, Joeliana, 4, and Aiden, 2, play.

Also during the day, the children perform chores, such as cleaning the house and feeding the chickens.

The younger children can certainly be a handful, especially Alia, Joeliana and Aiden. But they also are a lot of fun. Aiden liked to walk up close to my face and laugh. Alia liked to make faces and bend my fingers. Joeliana liked to leap onto my  lap.

I also got a chance to spend time with Kalyn and Caresse, the two birth daughters, during my visit. They both seemed so mature for their ages. Kalyn’s passion is going on Christian missions. Caresse’s passion is alternative medicine. She talked about natural remedies for upset stomachs and runny noses.

Both girls seem to really enjoy helping raise the children. “They are a lot of fun and you never have a dull moment,” Kalyn said.

I hope to do a followup blog on when the Hassoldts bring home their Ethiopian child next year. Stay tuned!

T0 read more about the Hassoldt family, go to their Web site here.

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Local event to mark Baha’is imprisonment in Iran

July 2nd, 2009, 1:08 pm by Mark Barna

Baha’is in Colorado Springs will host a public meeting at 7 p.m. on July 10 at the Baha’i Center, 1622 Rainier Drive. The event marks the one-year anniversary of the imprisonment of seven Baha’i leaders in Iran, who have reportedly spent a year in jail without formal charges or access to a lawyer.   

For more information, call a Baha’i  spokesperson at 209-1054.

The Baha’i Faith is the youngest of the world’s independent monotheistic religions. Baha’is view the world’s major religions as part of a progressive process through which God reveals his will to humanity. Major Baha’i tenets include the oneness of humanity, equality of men and women, eradication of prejudice, harmony of science and religion, universal education and world peace.

Updates and background on the situation of the Baha’is in Iran are posted at http://iran.bahai.us.  To learn more about the Baha’i Faith in America, check www.bahai.usand the Religion Newswriters Association Source Guide on the Baha’i Faith at http://www.religionlink.com/tip_090211.php.

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The perils of being a church leader

July 2nd, 2009, 11:38 am by Mark Barna

Randall Balmer, an Episcopal priest  and professor of American religious history at Barnard College in New York,  recently spent a year as a part-time clergy member. In an essay you can read here, he writes of how difficult it is to run a church and

Randall Balmer

Randall Balmer

 how hard it is to please members.

Here are highlights:

“Although the vast majority of churchgoers, in my experience, are decent and kind, parishioners less charitably disposed can find ingenious ways to make a minister’s life miserable: criticism of everything from comportment and grooming to sermons, salary and administrative style. If you’re decisive, you’re an autocrat; if you seek to build consensus, you’re a weak leader. Late in my father’s very successful ministerial career, the board of elders in a large and affluent congregation demanded that he personally reimburse the church for the photocopies he made for church business….

“Eventually, such sniping exacts a toll. I threw myself, heart and soul, into my parish, despite the fact that mine was carefully stipulated as a part-time appointment. No matter. The vestry (the governing body of the congregation) insisted on still more. Worse, by the actions of some in the congregation, I was asked, in effect, to choose between the parish and my marriage.

“I requested that my contract not be renewed for a second year.”

If you’ve had experience as a clergy member, I’d love to hear your take on what it’s like. Sometimes people think all a priest or minister does is write a sermon at his leisure to be read Sunday morning. But, according to Balmer, a church leader faces challenges and criticism at every turn.

I’m thinking of writing a story on this topic, so please comment below and if you’re willing to be interviews, you can e-mail me at mark.barna@gazette.com.

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A Christian family group stands up for Jenny Sullivan

July 1st, 2009, 4:52 pm by Mark Barna

As most faith-based family groups, including Focus on the Family, remain mum on the adulterous affair between the South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford and an Argentine

Oran P. Smith

Oran P. Smith

 woman, one conservative Christian group has stood up for Sanford’s wife, Jenny.

The Palmetto Family Council of South Carolina, which has a close relationship with Focus on the Family but no affiliation, has placed on its Web site, www.palmettofamily.org, a petition called “Stand with Jenny.”

Oran P. Smith, president and CEO of the Palmetto Family Council, said at first the group called for forgiveness toward Gov. Sanford but got pushback from its female constituents. “Women said we should not let this go without  people understanding the gravity of what he’s done,” Smith said.

The council’s second stand was to support Jenny through a petition drive, and  ”people started adding personal messages and comments,” Smith said.

On comment was this: “Excuse me, I do not feel that South Carolina should be viewed as a personal growth schoolroom for Sanford’s development as a ‘Christian.’”

Some took the governor to task for comparing himself to the Bible’s King David. “Go and read your Bible again and see the consequences that King David, King Solomon and Moses had to endure because they, like you, made foolish choices and God forgave them but they still had to suffer the consequences.”

Click here to read all the reasons why the Palmetto Family Council’s is supporting Jenny Sanford.

As for Palmetto Family Council’s decision to support Jenny Sanford rather than publicly bash the governor or lambast the “liberal” media for attacking a conservative Republican, Smith said: “So much of the activities on the Christian right can tend to be angry. Maybe there is a time for anger, but we are not about that.”

On a personal note, Smith thinks Gov. Sanford’s goose is cooked after his admission in an Associated Press interview Monday that the Argentine woman was his “soulmate” and that he has had multiple affairs.

Why hasn’t conservative Christian family values groups spoken out against Sanford? Should Sanford resign?

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Nixon-Graham conversation focused on Jews for Jesus

July 1st, 2009, 11:35 am by Mark Barna

A 20-minute telephone conversation between Richard Nixon and Billy Graham from Feb. 21, 1973, was released last week, in which the U.S. president and evangelical leader

Billy Graham

Billy Graham

 discuss the fledgling Jews for Jesus movement.

At the time, some prominent rabbis — such as the late Marc Tannenbaum, then director of Interreligious Affairs for the American Jewish Committee – spoke out against Jews for Jesus.

Over the years, Graham has made public comments  suggesting that the movement is a deceptive way to convert Jews to Christianity. But when talking to Nixon privately in 1973, Graham sounded supportive of the movement.

Though the Jews for Jesus movement was in its early stages, with only a handful of supporters, Graham characterizes it to Nixon as being “set up all over the country” and says Jewish leaders are “overreacting” to it.

In their phone conversation, Nixon tells Graham that he needs to set Tannenbaum straight about his speaking out against Jews for Jesus,  because that could fuel anti-Semitism in the U.S.

“You tell him he’s making a terrible mistake, and they’re going to get the darnedest round of anti-Semitism here if they don’t behave,” Nixon says.

What do you think Graham’s real feelings were about  Jews for Jesus ?

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Have gun, will travel … to church

June 26th, 2009, 12:53 pm by Mark Barna

Ken Pagano, the pastor of the New Bethel Church in Louisville, Ky.,  is passionate about gun rights — so much so that he told his congregants in a recent sermon to bring their firearms to church, the New York Times reports.

In a sermon titled “God, Guns, Gospel and Geometry,” Pagan said his congregation should wear or carry their firearms into the sanctuary to “celebrate our rights as Americans!”

“I don’t see any contradiction in this,” Pagano said. “Not every Christian denomination is pacifist.”

According to the Book of Matthew, Jesus “came not to bring peace, but a sword,” which some have quoted to advocate violence in the name of the faith. But that passage is at odds with many more New Testament passages in which Jesus sounds like a pacifist (turn the other cheek if someone strikes you, for instance).

So which is it? Share your thoughts with us.

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S.C. governor disappears from Values Voters lineup

June 25th, 2009, 2:21 pm by Barb Cotter

Don’t get all weepy, but South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford is no longer on the list of politicians, celebrities and talk show hosts invited to take part in the Value Voters Summit in a few months, according to The Associated Press.

Organizers of the summit, co-sponsored by Focus on the Family Action, make no mention on their Web site of Sanford’s disappearance from the lineup. But several Web sites have posted before-and-after photos of the summit’s roster of notables invited to speak.

Reports have come out saying that Sanford’s photo was removed before news of his affair broke, but it’s not clear why. Maybe it really did have nothing to do with his affair — and his lying to his constituents over his whereabouts. Maybe it did. In any case, he’s now likely to be  persona non grata with values voters.

Summit organizers still hope to have a stellar lineup of pols and celebs dedicated to the cause, and have invited, among others, actor-celebrities Stephen Baldwin, Gary Sinese, Ben Stein, Kirk Cameron and the much-hyped former Miss California USA Carrie Prejean; politicians Sarah Palin, Mitt Romney and Mike Huckabee; and talk-show torchbearers Laura Ingraham, Rush Limbaugh, Glenn Beck, Sean Hannity and Mark Levin.  Not everyone has accepted their invite yet, but the event doesn’t take place till Sept. 18, so there’s still time.

One person who has accepted a speaking invitation: Focus president Jim Daly.

Want more info on the event, including registration details? Check it out here.

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Congressman says America is a Christian nation

June 25th, 2009, 11:47 am by Mark Barna
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Earlier this year, President Barack Obama’s gave a speech in Turkey and said  that “we do not consider ourselves a Christian nation, or a Jewish nation …”

Rep. J. Randy Forbes (R-Va.) would argue otherwise — and, in fact, he did just that, saying on the floor of the U.S. House of Representatives  that America is,  indeed, a Judeo-Christian nation. You Tube has captured the speech, and we’ve included it above.

Books have been writen on this complex and often-divisive topic, so we’re not about to take it on here. But we’d love to know what you think, so leave us your comments and join the debate.

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Contrasting Focus’ Jim Daly and James Dobson

June 24th, 2009, 5:30 pm by Mark Barna

Jim Daly, Focus on the Family president and CEO, is taking a higher profile in the wake of Focus founder James Dobson’s stepping down as board chairman in February.

Jim Daly

Jim Daly

Over the weekend, Daly was in Washington, D.C., for Father’s Day, where he spoke briefly with President Barack Obama about  how they both were raised without a father and other topics, according to the Washington Post. Below are excerpts from that story.

In contrast to Dobson, Daly is seeking common ground between pro-life people and abortion activists by acknowledging that both sides want to lower abortion numbers, some of which he talks about in the Washington Post interview. It also appears that Daly prefers to talk about family values and traditional marriage rather than rail against gay marriage as a danger to America, as Dobson does.

Reports from some employees at Focus are that Daly’s kinder, gentler approach on issues is a welcome change from Dobson’s more combative style.

Much has been made about Daly’s touting of President Barack Obama at a February press conference. But as I reported on this blog following the press conference, Daly didn’t give too much ground.

After he praised Obama’s family as representing family values, I said to him that  ”I think some of us are surprised to here you praise Obama.” Daly was quick to say that, while he respects Obama’s family values, he doesn’t agree with many of his policies.

Do you think Daly’s leadership will significantly change Focus’s image held by some as a far-right, intolerant organization? Please respond below.

Highlights from the Daly interview:

What did you think of the fatherhood presentation this afternoon?
It was outstanding. There wasn’t anything lacking in the president’s presentation. He reaffirmed the importance of fathering and the damage done when fathers are lacking in the home. And it’s something that is core to Focus on the Family as well. Thought it was gracious for the White House to extend an invitation to Focus on the Family. We’re certainly going to have enough areas to disagree on certain policies. But one of the things I want to do as president of Focus is when there is common ground that we can pull together and say, “This is good. This is a good thing.” And personally, I am 47, like the president. I also didn’t have a father. So I can identify with what he describes as that hole in your heart. Anything we can do to help kids fill that void, I applaud. It’s something we’re trying to do every day at Focus and I think it’s wonderful for the government to also lend its support in that way.

Tell me about your plans for Focus on the Family. How do you plan to change the organization or keep it the same?
On the social issues, there is consistency. I am pro-life, I am pro-traditional marriage. At the same time, I’m also a person who looks for the conversation. I do want to talk to people who wouldn’t necessarily agree with me. That doesn’t offend me. I’m kind of a results-oriented person. I’d really like to solve some problems. The question I have is where can we meet on common ground. Like today, it’s like OK, can we lift the issue of fatherhood and make a difference in the country together? I think it’s a good thing for the country. The country benefits. I don’t know on the tougher issues like abortion, like traditional marriage, or homosexual marriage, what can be done there. But it’s a democracy. We get our voice out there, and that’s my goal—to be part of the process.

In that way, there won’t be a great difference. I think the difference will be the dialogue—engaging people who may disagree in a more aggressive way—in a good way.

What did you say to the president?
We shook hands, and I thanked him for the day. And I thanked him for putting attention on this issue of fatherhood and mentioned that, like him, I am 47, and I was raised without a dad. He had made a comment during his presentation that when he called his daughters during the campaign, they would answer with one word. I said, “I was glad to hear you say that because my sons are a similar age and do the same thing, so I’m glad it’s not me.”

He actually said congratulations for becoming president of Focus. I thought that was gracious, and I appreciated that acknowledgment. We have to remember that we’re all human beings. We’re all made in the image of God, and I’m sure everybody is trying hard and, to the degree that we can help in any way, that’s what we want to do. . . .

What about on abortion. You were quoted in the Denver Post as saying, “When those who are left, right and center all say, ‘Let’s make abortion rare.’ Let’s simply meet at the starting point. Let’s shove off the rhetoric and get together on a practical matter.” What did you mean by that?
What I meant is that I would like to sit down with those who may be pro choice when they say, “Let’s make abortion rare.” I obviously am pro life and would like to see that practice ended because I think in our humanity we can find better solutions to bringing children into the world. From what I understand, there are far more parents looking for infants than there are abortions. It would be nice to create a national database of parents waiting for kids.

[We need to find] a kinder, gentler way to approach this topic and see if we can make abortion rare without, as pro-lifers, abandoning our desire to see it eliminated altogether. That would be a great starting point. The very fact that those who support abortion would say, “We would like to make it rare,” says something about the fact that they must not feel good about it. So let’s start the dialogue.

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Compassion extends its reach

June 23rd, 2009, 5:43 pm by Barb Cotter

Compassion International, headquartered in Colorado Springs, bills itself as “one of the nation’s largest Christian child sponsorship organizations in the world.”

On Wednesday, the ministry will celebrate a milestone that underscores its claim: It now has 1 million children within its sponsorship program at one time.  That means sponsors are paying $38 a month to help 1 million needy children get food and clean water, medical care, education and other basics that a lot of Americans take for granted.

And yes, there’s this, according to Compassion’s Web site: ”Most important of all, your sponsored child will hear about Jesus Christ and be encouraged to develop a lifelong relationship with God. ”

Some critics might wonder why there needs to be a “spread the Word” element to helping children living in poverty, but that’s what this group is all about. If a group of atheists wants to start a similar program, what’s to stop them?

But if 1 million kids who live in poverty are getting a better life with some proselytizing throw in, is that really an issue?

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